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没有谁能比得过默默努力的你

文/胡识

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学妹打电话告诉我说,她这次研究生招生笔试成绩考得不是很好,应该不能进入下一轮复试。如果幸运进了复试,又会不会被刷下来?另外,现在有没有必要找导师呢?

我问她,国家录取线出来了吗?

她说,没有。

我说,好,既然国家录取线没有出来,那你凭什么说自己不能挺进复试?

她回答我说:“可我就是怕,怕自己考不上,怕不能读研。为了能考上研究生,去年我差点累死了。再说,身边有很多同学现在就开始联系导师,打电话、送礼物、动用一切关系。。。。。。但我家里找不到门路,我就认识学长你,能不怕吗?我也得提前做好准备啊!”

无论是考研,还是公考,那些感觉考得还不错的考生,会立马挤破脑袋想办法找各种关系。生活在现代社会,好像没有关系链、人脉圈,我们就注定会被孤立起来,等着被别人淘汰。

但是,年轻时没有关系或是人脉资源就真的寸步难行吗?这倒未必。

俗话说:“人越努力,越幸运”。

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记得当年考研,得知自己考到这样一个不高不低的分数时,我内心也是五味杂陈,迷惘无助。吃不下饭,睡不好着,总觉得自己没有关系就一定比不过别人,会落榜,会对不起父母。

但是,后来某天,我意外地通过某个大学同学联系到了我的师兄。

师兄大概了解了我的一些基本情况,斩钉截铁地告诉我:“学弟,师兄一定会拼尽全力去帮你。但你现在一定要努力,千万别着急,因为接下来的路还要靠你自己走完。如果你现在不自信,不努力,不多学一些东西,不再提高自己的能力,即使今天我把导师介绍给你,也不能保证导师会要你。”

我认真思考了几天师兄的话,终于战胜内心的怯懦,开始踏踏实实地复习。

复试那天,我用自己最真诚的态度和实力赢得了老师的赞赏和认可,并且成了一名医学研究生。

虽然我读的不是第一志愿,而且专业在别人眼里不是很好,也许将来不太好找工作,但我喜欢这个专业,也相信我适合。另外,我的导师虽然不是学校的领导干部,不是医学界的风云人物,但是我作为那一届她唯一的学生,导师对我很好。

我周边有很多研究生同学。他们的导师,有的是学校校长,有的是学院院长,还有的是院士等等。但我的那些同学并不为此感到快乐,因为要和导师见个面还得预约,即使见面了,也只是简单的寒暄,导师压根就没有时间关注他们最近的学习成绩和学术水平。

导师太忙了,要么在飞机上,要么在高铁上,通话时间总是不超过一分钟,这对我那些同学来说真是苦不堪言,但为了能顺利完成这份学业又不得不继续含辛茹苦。

曾经别人都以为找个大树好乘凉,但我现在越来越懂得,能够时刻关心你、对你好,能给予你教育和帮助的人,才是你生命中举足轻重,最有意义的人。

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我有一个同学叫石头,最近他向我抱怨说,科室主任医师对他真不公平,凭什么把跟他同一时间进来的小张留在自己身边,却把他分给了科室的一位主治医生。

石头感到愤懑不平,于是他问我有没有什么好的建议。

我说,那你就找主任开诚布公地谈谈。

一开始,石头很不情愿。他说:“主任是我表叔,表叔都不帮我,却把我支给了外人,我才不想找他,说多了丢死人。”

但后来某天石头告诉我,他真后悔找了主任,也就是自己的表叔。主任之所以把石头分给另一位主治医生,那是因为那位主治医生年轻有为,既有能力又有担当,还总乐意抽出自己宝贵的休息时间给学生讲课。

给石头安排这么好的一位老师,才是对石头最大的照顾。

相反,小张虽然跟了科室里最有威望的主任,但他并没有享受到石头的待遇。当然,这对小张也不一定是件彻彻底底的坏事,小张还很有可能因为依靠不了老师的帮忙,学会了自立自强,能在孤独中顽强地生存下来。

这世上没有绝对的好事,也没有绝对的坏事。所有我们经历过的开心的或难过的事情,都会成为刻骨铭心的记忆和留念。

即使现在的你和我一样平凡渺小,但这世上还是会有人穷尽一生记住你的身影。除此之外,没有谁的样子能比得过你,因为你只会默默努力,勇往直前。

你就是自己的太阳,也会散发出耀眼的光!

来源:阿识学长(ID:zhijianweny2015)

英文版:

Can try hard more silently than been get without who you

Article / Hu Shi

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Learn younger sister to call tell me to say, she this achievement of written examination of graduate student recruit students is taken an examination of is not very good, should not enter a second-round exam below one round. If lucky took a second-round exam, can be you brushed to come down again? Additional, have now necessary seek a teacher?

I ask her, did the country admit a line to come out?

She says, without.

I say, good, since the country admits a line to did not come out, by what do you say yourself then cannot push forward second-round exam?

She answers me to say: “ but I am afraid of namely, be afraid that oneself are not taken an examination of on, be afraid of cannot read grind. Go up to can be taken an examination of graduate student, my within an inch of is tired last year dead. Besides, there are a lot of classmates to begin to contact an adviser now beside, call, content of give sb a present, employ all relations. . . . . . But way cannot be found in my home, I learn to grow you with respect to understanding, can you be afraid of? I also must shift to an earlier date ready-made ah! ”

No matter be to take an examination of,grind, fair still one"s deceased father, those feel the examinee that takes an examination of well still, can squeeze broken head to think method seeks all sorts of relationships immediately. Live in modern society, seem to did not matter arteries and veins of catenary, person is encircled, we are destined to be able to be isolated rise, waiting to be washed out by others.

But, young when be did not concern or the can not move a steping with true resource of person arteries and veins? This pours may not.

Common saying says: “ person tries hard more, jump over lucky ” .

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Remember be being taken an examination of in those days grind, be informed oneself to be taken an examination of such not tall when not small fraction, my heart also is the five flavors miscellaneous old, perplexed and helpless. Meal of not feel like eating, sleep bad, always feel oneself do not have a relation to had not compared others certainly, can lose out, can I am sorry parents.

But, later one of these day, I contacted my senior fellow apprentice accidentally through fellow student of a certain college.

Senior fellow apprentice knew my a few fundamental conditions probably, ground of resolute and decisive tells me: “ learns younger brother, senior fellow apprentice can go all out certainly do one"s best go helping you. But you must try hard now, must not anxious, because next the road relies on yourself to go even. If you are not self-confident now, do not try hard, do not learn something more, increase oneself capacity no longer, although I introduce the adviser to you today, unwarrantable also adviser can want you. ”

I pondered over the word of senior fellow apprentice a few days seriously, eventually of conquer heart timid, begin to be reviewed dependably.

Second-round exam that day, the admiration that I won a teacher with my truest attitude and actual strength and approbate, and became graduate student of a medicine.

Although I am read, is not the first volunteer, and major is not very good in people look, it is not quite good to perhaps will come apply for a job, but I like this major, also believe I suit. Additional, although my adviser is not the leader cadre of the school, not be the man of the time of medical bound, but I regard that as a her only students, the adviser is very good to me.

My periphery has fellow student of a lot of graduate students. Their adviser, have a plenty of school principal, have a plenty of prexy, still have a plenty of academician to wait a moment. But those my classmates do not feel happy for this, because want to meet to be returned so that make an appointment with the adviser, although met, also be simple only greet, adviser pressing root pays close attention to their recent study result and academic level without time.

The adviser is too busy, or aboard, or is on Gao Tie, communicate time always does not exceed a minute, this is to me suffering can"ts bear character really for those classmates, but must continue again to can complete this school work smoothly endure all kinds of hardships.

Once people thinks it is good to look for a large tree enjoy the cool, but I am known more and more now, always can care you, good to you, can give you the person of education and help, just be you hold the balance in life, the most significant person.

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I have a classmate to make stone, he complains to me recently say, doctor of section office chairman is really inequitable to him, leave the Xiaozhang that comes in for a short while together with him beside oneself by what, however his deal out a doctor in charge of a case of section office.

Stone feels depressed and discontented and rough, then he asks I have the proposal with good what.

I say, then you look for a director to talk frankly and sincerely.

At the beginning, stone is very loath. He says: Director “ is my watch father"s younger brother, watch father"s younger brother does not help me, raise me to alien however, I just do not want to look for him, say much lose a the dead. ”

But later one of these day stone tells me, he regretted to seek a chairman really, namely oneself watch father"s younger brother. Director stone deal out another doctor in charge of a case, because that doctor in charge of a case is young,that is promising, already capable to have again take on, take out oneself valuable breathing space gladly always still to give a student lecture.

Arrange a so good teacher to stone, just be the biggest to stone take care of.

Contrary, although Xiaozhang followed the head that there is mana most in section office, but the treatment that he did not enjoy rock. Of course, this pair of small Zhang Ye are not a sound bad thing certainly, small Zhang Hai is very possible help because of what cannot rely on a teacher, learned free-standing self-improvement, live tenaciously come down.

There is absolutely favour on this world, also do not have very bad thing. All our experience pass happy or sad thing, can become the memory that remember to the end of one"s life and accept as a souvenir.

Although present you and I am euqally ordinary and insignificant, but meeting somebody still is on this world the figure that end lifetime remembers you. Besides, the appearance that who does not have can be compared so that cross you, because you can try hard silently only, precipitant.

You are your sun, also can send out a dazzling light!

Origin: A knowledge learns to grow (ID: Zhijianweny2015)

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