Want today"s your excel only yesterday you, it is the greatest success
My childhood is shadowiness, this are beyond question.
Because,be probably, what that moment receives is negative and too much. It is a common child originally, appearance common, figure grade is common, average, what is common.
But common common, want to do an Everyman to be no good quietly namely? Want to go slowly in congested crowd only, grow long time to pass slowly.
But the fact tells me, such is no good. What what go after because of me is common, do not have prospect namely actually in eye of a lot of people, do not consider be eager to make progress namely.
For instance, the teacher can say, you see you be the same as desk, the exercise multitask that he writes is whole, and you? Do not have a law to look at all;
For instance, homecoming says, the clothes that you see me is much more beautiful, what is what you see you wear then, ugly dead;
For instance, mom can say, the child that you visit others home is much fiercer, the exam took an examination of full marks, you see you, fail again, you lose face to mom really.
Grown in this kind of environment, gradually also with respect to be accustomed to sth, in thinking this lifetime should be in the person to be compared what follow others ceaselessly namely, go down too.
Once this kind of idea is formed, the development in long time is medullary after be in gradually, the meeting after be brought up even compares the work with others, than income, than the boy friend, than husband, again next, than the child, study result that compares the child.
Then, begin to suspect, why should life be alive compare with others ceaselessly in? This lifetime once, why cannot give oneself alive? Everybody has his road to want, have oneself choice and valuation, if be pattern plate with the life of others, is our then living meaning in?
Not only such, compare blindly blindly with others, lose oneself principle and bottom line easily still, gradually meeting affects happy sense, live in the shadow of others even, one pace loses him.
Review our life, actually this kind is without the comparison of cause nowhere is absent. Their existence resembles us a thorn in the flesh is same, do not touch calculated, touch be about painful a lot of days, but unplug from beginning to end however do not come out.
There is a neighbour aunt before is such, everything wants to be compared with others. No matter him live well is bad, it is good to should compare you only anyway, that is good really.
She this year near 60 years old, an attorney office that says the son is in the United States works. But, had seen her son without the person, because she is essential,do not have a son.
Yes, our everybody knows she is lying, but go without the person debunk she, more it is to feel distressed she.
What does a person show off the more, what to lack the more.
Actually, oneself time passes how, only in him heart the clearest, should vie with the person why? Whenever He De, oneself feeling just is the truest.
In the final analysis, the person"s vanity often results from not self-confident. But we often forgot however, everyone is only life, do not go up in this world. We should go out alive unique individual, no matter wind of in relief smooth beautiful or blows rain to hit, oneself also are a scenery.
Why to say to be not compared blindly with others?
Still having a reason is, the pursuit of everybody is different, resemble the orbit that does not intersect completely, often can not compare a gender.
In the eye of 100 people, the life has 100 kinds of different look. Some people are sitting private plane, opening luxurious houseboat not to feel happy, and some people buy a hand of 5 money to catch cake to feel he is the happiest person on the world.
Some people give birth to pursuit money, fame and gain, desire firstly eventually, some people think wive of peaceful peaceful light land is parturient, live peacefully. We cannot say former be a success, and latter fails namely. Everybody chooses to differ, but should be respected.
Everybody is his host, this lifetime should become what kind of person, want to make what profession, want to reach a what kind of height, active advantageous position is in his hand. If can live a life that oneself like, be not to have regret.
But no matter we choose what kind of life, after all is to want to go ahead, look up. That compares our a lot of fiercer person, we can treat as completely the example that oneself learn, and ground of work with perseverance dresses to him. Premise is, do not deny blindly oneself.
As long as today"s you, excel yesterday you, that is the greatest success.
Origin: Zhong Nian reads aloud (ID: Zhongniannian1)