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你所有的努力,都有迹可循

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过了成年的年龄,你或许还不明白,努力奋斗是为了自己。

思思在朋友圈感慨:" 真快,毕业一年,自己仍在原地踏步,面对一群即将涌入社会的优秀人,内心十分惶恐。"

评论区里不少留言,内容无一例外说的都是 " 你这么努力,还怕没有竞争力 " 之类的话。这次,思思没有像以往那样和大家热情互动,她一条都没回。

再次看到思思消息,是大半个月以后,她换掉了甜美可爱的头像,还删了朋友圈,把签名改成了" 从头努力,这次我是认真的 "。

曾经那些看似努力的经历,只不过想获得更多肯定与支持。

曾经以为那些点赞和评论就是对我努力的认同,但其实,有没有真的努力,自己心里最清楚。你可以骗自己一阵子,但是骗不了一辈子。

每一个人都想寻找认同感,用一种积极的方式,在可控的范围内把自己的努力放大,得到一定的自我满足。

但很少有人明白,一个人对待努力真正的态度,是脚踏实地。

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如果你清晨六点想要喝上一碗熬得刚刚好的浓粥,那么隔天夜里就要把米泡好,早上五点要下锅,中途需要开锅搅拌,留意水多了或是少了。一切拿捏得刚刚好,你才能在六点悠闲地坐下来吃早饭。

真正有用的努力是把控好过程和细节,都做到了一百分,结果就算打八折,也是良好。

无论学习还是工作,成功的经验不断告诉我们:努力在于把控过程和细节,过程和细节决定目标的实现。

我的上司是公认的活得努力又精致的女人。一次,我因为有事比平时早到办公室半个小时,发现她已经在办公室悠然吃早餐。

后来我才知道,她每天都坚持早到一小时,风雨不变。

印象最深的是一次向她汇报工作。她指着每一个项目跟我说,每一个指标都要写具体的完成时间,如何保证工作成果,如何考核等等。不仅仅要对结果负责,还要努力把过程和细节做好。

后来,我渐渐体会到,优秀的人永远都知道下一步要做什么,怎么做,需要投入多少精力。我看到了一个努力的人该有的样子,一个努力的人真正努力的方式。

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明白努力的正确打开方式后,你还要学会坚持。

21 天可以养成一个习惯,坚持努力也是习惯。

一个朋友,因工作原因长期在外出差。每次看她凌晨在异地打卡结束一天的工作,看她向全世界喊出 " 我会是最棒的姑娘 ",我就知道,她的人生一定不会太差。

有人说,人一旦知道为了什么而活,就能够承受任何一种活法了。

你在满是泥泞的小路上胆战心惊地跨出了第一步,之后吃力地又跨出了一步,一步又一步,摇摇晃晃又坚定无比。最后无论是山是海,你都可以走得稳定而坦然,因为你已经度过最难熬的时段。

人生的路,一步都不能少,你有多努力多拼命,心里最清楚。如果你还不能体会,那也没有关系,生活会让你在无数次跌倒中明白,你所有或潦草或努力走过的路,其实都有迹可循。

还好,时光尚早。努力,总有出路。

来源:鸡汤小镇(ID:wandiangushi)

英文版:

You all effort, have mark but abide

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Passed grown age, you still do not understand probably, making arduous efforts is for oneself.

Think of think of deep feeling encircles in the friend: "Really fast, graduate one year, oneself still are in place footfall, face a flock of outstanding people that are about to swarm into a society, heart very terrified. Heart very terrified..

In comment area many leaving a message, what content says without one exception is " you so hard, still be afraid of the word that does not have and so on of competition ability " . This, think of think of did not resemble interacting enthusiasticly with everybody in that way before, she was not answered.

See again think of consider a message, it is most after the month, she changed melting and lovely head portrait, return cutout friend circle, change sign one"s name into " to try hard from the beginning, this I am serious " .

Once those see the experience that is like hard, just want to win more affirmation and support.

Once thought those nod assist and the self-identity that comment on even if try hard to me, but actually, try hard really, in him heart the clearest. You can cheat him a period of time, but cannot cheat all one"s life.

Each person wants to search self-identity to feel, with a kind of active means, try hard oneself to magnify inside the limits that can accuse, get certain ego is satisfied.

But very few somebody is obvious, a person treats the manner with genuine effort, it is hardheaded.

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If your early morning wanted to drink on one bowl to be boiled just at 6 o"clock firm good mush, so it is good rice bubble to be about in the night that lie between a day, wanted to leave boiler at 5 o"clock in the morning, midway needs boil agitate, advertent water became much or be little. Everything is taken hold just just, you just can sit to eat breakfast in carefree at 6 o"clock ground.

Truly useful effort is accuse feel well Cheng and detail, accomplished 100 minutes, the result calculates dozen 8 fold, also be good.

No matter learn to still work, successful experience tells us ceaselessly: Depend on hard accuse process and detail, process and detail decide the implementation of the target.

My boss is accepted work must try hard delicate woman. , because I am occupied than reaching the office early at ordinary times half hour, discover she has had breakfast carefreely in the office.

I just know later, she insists to arrive early one hour everyday, the elements is constant.

Impression is the deepest is to her the report works. She is pointing to each project to say with me, each index should keep the specific time that finish, how to assure working achievement, how to assess etc. Want to be in charge of to the result not just, had done process and detail hard even.

Later, I am experienced gradually, outstanding person knows to want what to do next forever, how to do, need throws how many energy. The person that I saw one tries hard this some appearance, the means that the person of an effort tries hard truly.

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Those who understand hard is correct after opening way, you learn to hold to even.

21 days can nurturance is used to, holding to effort also is a habit.

A friend, because working reason is long-term and outer,be away on official business. See her before dawn make the work that blocks an end one day in different ground every time, see her call a " to the whole world I can be the most marvellous girl " , I know, her life scarcely will be too poor.

Someone says, once the person knows for what work, can bear a kind of any vivid laws.

You are muddy alley completely on terrifying the ground is crossed gave the first condition, cross demandingly again later gave one condition, one pace another pace, groggy sturdy and clinking. Finally no matter be hill,be the sea, you can go steadily and calm, because you had spent the most provoking period of time.

The road of life, one pace cannot little, you have Duonuliduo desperately, in the heart the clearest. If you still cannot be experienced, that also did not concern, the life can make you clear in falling countless times, you all or illegible or the route that has taken hard, have mark actually but abide.

Not bad, days is still early. Hard, always have an outlet.

Origin: Chicken broth small town (ID: Wandiangushi)

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