Had you tried hard really
Thank father mother, you gave me not to have the life of care now, also gave me to make arduous efforts, seek dreamy space!
Thank father mother more, you are my best struggling example!
I often hear a few voice that complain in this paragraph of day, someone says he is star-crossed, cannot find good job; Road of plead for mercy for sb does not arrange somebody, always encounter person broken bits; Someone says parents does not have skill, can not afford a room; Somebody complains meet a person not kind and gentle, always be worked in the same place to bully; Someone says him life is bad, do not encounter Mom of dad of riches and honour, cannot become riches and honour 2 generation, confront afore-mentioned total total issue then.
Face such problem, I often do not know what to should say, I had seen too much the person that relies on oneself hard to change the life, also had seen too too prodigal originally advantageous condition and the person that turns life into finally trash. The person"s birth cannot choose really, but prospective destiny can choose!
These days mom is here play, accidental say my home these year change, mom speaks of to once hired those friends that take a plant together, everybody"s scratch line is same, the factory is hired, the quota of people that is versed in for the whole people smashs a head, want a marriage even calculate amid.
The time of state-owend enterprise mess, of those fawn on, those are good at what the person of double-dealing often mixes wanting to compare simple minded not have one"s ideas straightened out knows death works only the person that does a technology, those who be close friends is much. In my memory, those uncle aunt homes that make cut of supply and marketing always have a lot of delicious, always have fresh playing first most meaning, good-looking dress. Enter those youths of the factory together, in get married establish line of business, children is 78 years old when, respective life can begin differentiation, those who do administration and dry supply and marketing is the richest, and make a technology often the poorest, my home is latter.
But the terminus that this is not life.
98 years when, the destiny pullbacked major person to go bankrupt with state-owend enterprise of —— of one scratch line again. So big plant, thousands of come the worker of date, so in the destiny that faces come off sentry duty overnight, unlike who who is good also so a bit. Person of that one generation arrives in the experience of middleaged phase first time of life the power of market economy. Place in them to have two choices only at the moment: Otherwise implores the destiny is miserable, the salary that taking one-time close an account from now on is out at the elbows spend lifetime, otherwise does not believe life already was decided, change destiny. The tide of come off sentry duty that begins 98 years gave the person that make arduous efforts the 2nd times to choose the opportunity of the destiny. Everybody stands on same scratch line again, after ten years, walked out of not same life way.
Listen to mom to say, the insolvency of the unit that they are in labor pains is as long as two years, when waiting for liquidation group to withdraw from the unit, a so big state-owend enterprise becomes suffer misery. This moment had the person of a way of escape to find next homes already, the person selected choose that does not have a way of escape is taking liquidation salary to make a plan additionally, those people that the most miserable nothing is more... than stays behind.
Go bankrupt to often can accompany corruption to investigate, the uncles that once were familiar with more very much are collective became a captive, in my impression, factory director and Party branch secretary went in, the cadres that still have opening of a few sale also did not fall. And this moment, my father facing death recieves orders, go taking over the Party branch that does not have a person already, became be taken by me in the future ” of joking commander of “ polished rod. People listens going up is ” of secretary of “ Party branch, is the gatekeeper ” with hapless “ actually.
Approach time of 1 year, my home does not have income, only some earlier year of pa Mom is painstaking and economic that bit of money that come down, maintain constrainedly. During this, besides a few day-to-day businesses that manage plant of this a bare outline, father passes the friend"s help, begin to hold two or more posts concurrently in accountant office, allowance family expenses. Because father one"s early years is ” of section chief of “ equipment division, perfectness equipment, need audit when accountant office similar company when, can ask him to help, give bit of pay. Old father won"t calculate, can use the computer only, when workload is big, often should boil before dawn at 3 o"clock. Because old father job is very responsible, working error rate is very low, that friend suggests my pa is flat even leave an unit, go to an office for a long time helping. Knowing is old father arrest still feels to leave to not be in charge of a bit at that time, anyhow did not agree.
The hammer that regards whole town as bald of exclusive heavy industry enterprise is over there, the government also is afraid of it so was over, begin to think method capital attraction. After a few months, father begins to often attend a meeting, begin to contact a few stranger, return somebody to talk about a thing even. Listen to mom to say later, those people make an on-the-spot investigation namely.
The first person that comes first, to me pa talked a few days, face think a place of strategic importance a red bag, there are 3000 yuan inside, my pa did not close. Came again later a batch of person, talked a few days again, red bag raise the quota became 5000 yuan, my pa still is confiscated. Again one looks later more can advocate the person of the thing will look for my pa, talked one day, red bag becomes directly 20 thousand, he still is confiscated. Actually, I estimate at that time the deposit in the home also already bad news 7788, my Mom looked for a relation to do retire ahead of schedule, a monthly wages just 418.3, I am old pa chooses scattered fund then besides accountant office, money of ” of guard the entrance of every months of “ also 400, still be a dud cheque. The 3000 it may not be a bad idea at that time, 20 thousand still be later, it is brushstroke big money to them, the life that can have improved a little while probably. Nevertheless, pa Mom is an upright person work to have a principle, always feeling should be he just is taken, ought not to be oneself, took principle having disgrace. At that time, old father follows that advocate the person of the thing says, “ if you are willing to invest collaboration really, I what can help am certain busy, I what there is a problem on the technology will solve, so big without person hope a factory was abandoned. ”
I am not clear about be this 3 to make an on-the-spot investigation let those people put a heart, anyhow, after two months by pull wires of the leader in city, a by a definite date the contract of 10 years that rent so signed, that gives the person of 20 thousand finally is in the future president.
After the contract is signed, the technician that they need a few former plants will coach product line flow, also hinder at the same time at a few face above, also arranged a few positions to give so (did not enter bureau child) cadre, but the issue that a bit did not raise money. To my pa here, because the impression of early days is very good, feel he is the principle does not have those small the person of 99, also hope he can come over to help production, but when mentioning recompense as before. That paragraph of day, my Mom often says, you this all the day busy come busy go, how to also see a salary recapture come!
Before 3 months that the workshop starts, busy decadent, one wool money have, those cadres do not sit, once oneself are high-fed be used to, now not only the job wants tiredly dead, see this side do not know the complexion of the foreigner that where comes, return one wool money not to see, calculate what thing! Then they begin pettish, begin to go on strike. This goes on strike, my pa is miserable, heavy industry enterprise, on one new product line will be exceedingly hard, come again a strike, that did not give half help, still increase chaos, workload for no reason added several times. Not only such, they return agitate I am old pa goes on strike, leave an an awful mess to give them, seeming to be returned now is the state-owend enterprise before, the thing of the pubic, defeat light to be pulled, close down best!
My pa did not agree, he becomes the secretary of “ Party committee of a polished rod ” all the year round, good not easy hopeful really can change this current situation, he is hated to part with leave, more what is more,the rather that, he is flagrant oneself are irresponsible, a product line just go up, had not begun production, dabbler when swing his arm not to work, he cannot cross himself this closes.
That side person was troubled by discovery a long time to do not have play, ask to leave in succession, think this kind of menace still can follow before that kind of be successful. Excuse me does not know, 30 years of rivers east 30 years of rivers on the west, here is early not be them OK and wanton the place that order about, those investor use this opportunity, took dot money, do not work this side the fellow of a clamour was asked go out.
Perhaps, I am old this all one"s life likes pa become loss is big.
The foreigner enough firm that although these coming,invests, working style is “ for the word with my Mom exceeding and cruel ” , last projects do not sleep to want to be done. In my pa eye, these talents are the person that wants to make a career truly. Listen to him to say later, inchoate 3 months, other worker is not to take money, they are ceaseless toward inside draw out money, whole project investment was spent 4000 much, they fear to be able to be done than who do not rise. Await in those days, I am old pa is day-to-day work 12 hours, they also are the job 12 hours, everybody is nodded unlike whose feel well.
After doing not have a few months, everything enters the right path, they begin to say formally with my pa, leading a layer is themselves person, what I can give father here is the middle-level position of director of a workshop, salary 1800 yuan, they enquire whether my father is willing to accept. Perhaps be at that time do not have other options really, perhaps be at that time the unit that he worked more than 10 years to this is sentient, still perhaps have other considerations, old father did not refuse, my Mom also expresses to support, so, my pa took off former identity, became the person that a prevailing works.
Arrive from start working the end of the year, the time of 7 months, my pa gets 1800 yuan every months, those uncles that leave already constant rearward mocks me pa is foolish, spell work to teach a family the technique for risk one"s life of this bit of money, undertake transforming to the family. And they order a concern then in recumbent home, did a small cadre where where again, need not work every month still can take two 3000 salary.
The life so begin to restore bit by bit, the salary of my pa begins with annual the rate of 10% rises, bonus begins end of the year from 5000 go up to 10 thousand, 30 thousand. The trust that heads a layer as annual salary year after year grows, flash went 3 years, the income of my pa annual became 80 thousand, this to the pa Mom at that time character, be perfectly firewood proposes a toast, old father and the difference of a few friends beside begin to be shown gradually. This moment destiny gave my pa the option again.
Because of the reason of technical public praise, the business that begins to have a few periphery wants to dig horn, a few technical staff that hope my pa and unit are other can find new job in the past, undertake the enterprise recombines, the yearly salary that flies my father at that time is 150 thousand, 2003, of small to a 34 lines town common the person that work, the yearly salary of 150 thousand has appeal too, those other technical staff had received olive in succession, consider finding new job, plan to take away a batch of oneself trusted followers even. For a short while, popular feeling begins to drift.
My father did not declare where one stands, look for the president at that time directly however, without preamble state oneself do not plan to leave, how does someone else choose him to cannot decide, but he won"t go. Without requirement raises, also reduce workload without the requirement, he still is taking a year of his firewood of 80 thousand to propose a toast, doing annual not to have resting job almost. That time former plant been investinging 3 times expand in hand, total assets already from 30 million former, became 3 100 million.
My Mom says, since old father does not leave, depend on stabilizing a consideration for the family, 2 will depend on responsibility heart and faithfulness spending, come from 3 years this of the job, although take firewood proposes a toast very middle-level, the work is very hard, but, administrative layer gives him huge respect all the time, producing this part, was to give full credit more. It is very important also to still have a bit, there are oneself in old father heart measure, one is in the enterprise that rises steadily, far smaller than what have not start shop has an outlook more, what light what is heavy, he is clear.
Occasionally I think, my pa Mom often does a few very stupid businesses, but often be to be benefited finally however most person, this is not them is lucky, however their discretion is sedate, play have principle and program long-term. A lot of things are in short-term inside see less than allowing why improvement, but want fundamental firm only, as long as way is right, time can give them to want.
The promise of 150 thousand yearly salary pulled several middle-level cadres with outstanding technology, again, I am old pa is assumed case additional many job, fortunately he has deep love for in one"s heart oneself job, the hope goes vending all sorts of transforming, otherwise, do not know these really year how to insist to come down.
Because of this one thing, whole government layer had better view to old father, they begin to give old father ceaselessly to put power, begin to let old father enter administrative layer daily and decision-making conference, salary begins to break away from middle-level cadre standard, to a few pairs total pay draws close. More interesting is, they begin to suggest my pa becomes a shareholder, even if have little only, they also welcome old father to join.
The 2nd year after 150 thousand yearly salary, the annual income of my pa was entered 120 thousand close greatly, and that side person that leaves pursuit high pay finds new job those two years ago, listen to mom to say, most person is connected two years 100 thousand did not earn come back, because small company presses a root,leave not to rise.
2005 when, my pa Mom begins small fund become a shareholder, the enterprise begins to do bigger more, capital boils more gradually bigger and bigger, when when I graduate 9 years, abrupt discovery rolls big snowball to be able to let parents be in of this city life first-rate. Old father from a small middle-level cadre, shake the body turns into trustee, enter decision-making ring.
A state-owend enterprise that goes bankrupt originally by the devoted bring back to life of 40 million, these 13 years, they serve as the mother"s body with this enterprise, undertake ceaseless extend invests, establish 4 branches, at the same time sortie estate is mixed the other industry such as the hotel. After 13 years, they are no longer bear hire square, however real company is master, group managers.
I often am thinking, after pa Mom is going bankrupt, if abandons hard thoroughly at the outset, if surrenders in the disarm before those small temptation, they do not restrain if really small greedy and took that 3000 yuan, do not have present life.
Mom often says, these 10 years, changed us only it seems that destiny, those once all friends that live in household division, life of 13 years and present life do not have too much change, it is to complain as before at the outset state-owend enterprise come off sentry duty, it is the sudden huge profits that complains capitalist is mixed as before exploit, but have my home only merely, wherefrom the household division with towering complaint jumps from come out, have another kind of life.
I say with the friend, I believe “ tries hard to be able to change the view of destiny ” , even if has a lot of people to try hard in work of my bear be shy with strangers finish cannot get him to want, no matter very much even person is in hard, the destiny can joke with him. But in one"s heart, I still should say with oneself “ tries hard to be met certainly more valuable than abandoning ” . My body is telling me in the example of existence “ wants hard to be able to change a destiny only ceaselessly, even if destiny won"t in him imagination like good, it is a lot of better before that that also is compared certainly. Mom of ” my pa is such, the someone else in my home also is such.
Here, I still want to say my uncle, one each is small Mom having father, be picked up to answer family belongs grandchildren to raise by old husband and wife of on small town one caboodle. My the husband of one"s maternal aunt often says with me, begin to follow great grandfather old grandma to go out when he is small beggar, pick up junk, poor person is not in the home 4 walls, also be all sides air leak. But this is old husband and wife is hit small say with the husband of one"s maternal aunt, must read well, must leave this small garrison post, you went out to just can change a destiny only.
Much better old husband and wife, cannot give substance, give the child backbone.
The husband of one"s maternal aunt leaves small town to take an examination of the county to read a middle school, next with the county the first achievement is taken an examination of read high school in city, the high school that he reads (also be later the school that I read) it is a countrywide key middle school, annual besides provoking the student with collection best urban district, to level of 9 counties town is medium below action collection before 3 best, you think with the husband of one"s maternal aunt that environment, it is much more difficult that this is gotten. But, this lord child accomplished. High school after 3 years, he takes an examination of the atmosphere department of Nanjing university, what was not taken away from native place, besides a suit dress that rents with neighbour home. I once thought all the time the sort of reading the university borrows the dress to wear is the story in the novel, but when returning that small town to go up later, borrow that family of the dress to still be in actually in those days, that child speaks of this story to still have a place quite proud.
Atmosphere graduates like the department south, obedience allocation went to Beijing atmosphere bureau, after Beijing atmosphere bureau accomplishs deputy director general, drop the issue of registered permanent residence for maternal aunt, the option leaves Beijing area, transfer into some county of Beijing (now should be an area) the government becomes office chairman.
This lifetime of the husband of one"s maternal aunt very like us the phoenix with medium now mouth male (go up in marriage of course he does not have phoenix male that kind) , he does not have any resource, do not have even personal dad Mom, what obtained Yuan Chao what rely on his however to cross him himself to imagine hard is good.
Not only he is such, my maternal aunt is such also, become in small town in those days a village aunt (she often loves so derisive oneself) , went to Beijing with the husband of one"s maternal aunt later, what be bullied by Peking Man is terrible, arrive to dress to experience from conversation the life, it seems that without a single redeeming feature. Enter state-operated unit later, experience is more miserable, because do not have culture, a lot of things learn not to come, even if is the simplest account often errs. Bend so as to breakstubborn of disposition of my maternal aunt, most hate is looked down on, let my the husband of one"s maternal aunt give in the evening everyday then make up a missed lesson, the village that does not know a few words really from tentativelies, be stupefied was to become in the future advocate Zhang accountant, this tries hard namely.
I am done not have fine had asked in those days how does get over come to the day, but light thinks, feel not easy.
Actually, not only light is a family member, still have the friend beside me, beside me close people of the friend, they are proving to the life with effort, everything should try hard only, can change, going up somehow at least such. They go to abroad reading through their effort, go to the world 500 strong jobs, their effort through oneself hits the domain that does not wear to make arduous efforts in another 8 bamboo pole, their effort through oneself is hard in a city dozen go all out, begin to save from a minute of money, do not lean, also do not have the help of any family members actually, oneself buy a house, establish a family, and also buy a car now, begin to live in this city with another kind of attitude.
Be just like the colleague before me, she and her husband come from a country, there still is brotherly sister above, in this city, rely on oneself entirely, come home every year what to take to parents even. Young husband and wife the two buildings that lease are 300 yuan a month, the condition that rent house is differred mysterious, two people of husband and wife for assemble house head pay, reduce daily expenditure for long in 20 yuan of less than, work in the same place once even return old home a few days, his husband besides solve in the unit have a meal problem, other expense is compressed actually in daily 5 yuan. The job puts coverall two years besides unit hair, be stupefied is to did not acquire a new clothes. such, recumbent firm job does not calculate much wage, collect of two people gnash one"s teeth became sufficient buy a house head pay. Place of even if house is out-of-the-way, establishment of form a complete set has not caught up with, but at least the effort that they rely on themselves, owned oneself home.
When I remember just buying a house, she says with me, also pass in bad life before, total now meeting is better than before. Want me to follow husband hard only, wait for the child to read elementary school, we can change the house into as a child certainly big, change urban center from the suburb. There is a lot of to gnaw old gens beside me at that time, those people say what lofty sentiments is strong language, I not quite letter, but I what they say am believed, because I see the effort that they come to two this years, can let me admire only!
After a year, her husband finds new job, salary begins to turn over times, she left me the unit of this hole dad, salary also breaks up times, these days she calls to me say, available make her old make public a car to receive me to go to her home playing, ha, be, the car also was bought. I think, child of have more than is needed reads elementary school, they can change the house as a child big, change downtown from the suburb.
This is the force of effort, let a person touch than any brave words! I very feel happy the circle that oneself lives was full of hard they, no matter be father lifetime family member, still be a friend, they prove in the act that uses their “ tries hard to have redound ” this belief, I also should be thanked those gnaw old friends beside me, they also are being used abandon, complain, the counterevidence that does not beg aspirant means to become “ hard to have redound ” hard, of course, they do not have time to ponder over “ to make arduous efforts the thing of ” , because of them busy unending “ blames life ” !
Often I encounter those unending blame life, insist to think “ tries hard to won"t have the friend of redound ” , I want to ask them very much really, do you cross “ hard really? ”
Do not say, had tried hard to do not have redound, ask oneself you had tried hard really first, you are resolved really, burn one"s boats, go all out do one"s best hold to a thing? I had crossed so called “ hard in those mouths, but the person that does not have redound ” , ask oneself, those effort are like a dragonfly skimming the surface of the water-touch on sth without going into it deeply only merely, just stay in oral expression merely, just shine in the heart merely and pass, turn is a body whole forgot?
You say to want effort take an examination ofing to grind, change destiny, but study hall often fishs 3 days two days to bask in a net, boil all night to had never happened on your body, when take an exam one day that, see examination paper, foolish eye, begin to send a card to atttack English to give a title in all sorts of forum then too abnormal!
You say to want hard to go to good company into the foreign enterprise, but the basic level that often is not willing to be in an enterprise learns a skill, however every encounter a few small setbacks to begin to complain the company is inhuman, salary too low. Even if wants to find new job, also want to arrive home horizontal practice, experience accumulates certain level to go again. Do not want level or dish bird, ego acknowledge arrived however chief inspector level.
You say to want hard to go abroad read change destiny, but the back begins to cry to GRE word the day calls the land, scold dad to scold a woman to scold word allergy, these abnormal words changed the destiny of how many student, send the school that admire in the heart the youth of much rarer perseverance. How to arrive unluckily here washed-up?
You say to want to do poineering work make big money, but expend besides the assistance of Mom of the dad that spend light, compensate took the deposit of oneself and friend, close down to finally. I see with respect to saw with one"s own eyes the friend burns light hundred thousands of, say with me as the person that do not have a thing next, social unfavorable situation is bad now, who who everybody did not close down. I did not hear his one man to the dot meditates and think even, it seems that the money of those sacrifice and time as vapor same, connect a water be soiled to did not stay.
Yes, you plan to do a few businesses, get through hastily next, die on the vine, conclude finally, do not have redound hard!
Such effort has been jumped over lesser if only, besides bringing bad negative effect to the friend, still harmed the heart that parents awaits!
I know worldly the thing that has a lot of a lot of inequity, also know to the bearer below lifetime of a lot of people gives birth to start to compare others bottom, be like north to go up wide the child that takes an examination of good university, what the mark comes with respect to the child that compares other city is low, can go abroad natively for instance study abroad, far what the person that gnaws GRE in the death in hut than those broods comes is easy, yes, this is the lot that God gives, nail a hammer with respect to iron plate at the beginning.
But we cannot abandon, cannot say with oneself, other people is better than me, I am so abandon oneself to vice. Calculated us to try hard all one"s life to also be not chased after get on those containing a person that golden spoon is born, but we can change ourselves, change that backward life starting point. Of that own work before we can be compared better, we can be compared beside originally what the person of similar requirement goes is farther, we can try to go even enough life that appears in the ability in the dream only. Because our starting point is low, the space that so God gives us obligate gift is great, so ability can have the possibility of more change.
Retreating 10 thousand paces to tell, him even if tried hard, but still cannot come true once fixed target, for instance the target is to become such-and-such chairman, such-and-such president and so on, but in this process, god lets you through knowing a lot of people, encountered a lot of troubles, widened thereby eye shot. Convention dot is told, even if did not change deepness, extended length at least.
I believe the value of effort as before, struggling meaning, believe the person that the day aids self-help as before, believe to hold to even if not to give finish fruit as before, regular also meeting has wonderful process.
So, want to say with friends really, pack up complain, vacate time will do truly significant business, do real conference to change the thing of oneself, do those letting that others is open-armed to admire your thing.
Wanted to try hard only, you can discover you are actually far in comparing an imagination marvelous!