Begin from now, it is best time
Last on Sunday, I encountered an acquaintance when shop. 10 years ago, she leaves type duplicate inn, as it happens is in my home of inn next door.
I am looking her up and down up and down, already woman of many years old 40, look very intellectual and spell able. She tells me, in city a well-known company goes to work now, not long ago still became sectional chairman.
10 years ago, she is outer should run duplicate store, come home should busy housework, coach on the son of elementary school, but return everyday ground of make use of every bit of time or space holds a book in both hands, read book of a few pages, become a few problems. Preparing adult the university entrance exam to her this thing, I am very amazed at that time, her at that time already many years old 30, be too bit later? Etc obtain letter of complete a course, already was 40 come year old age. Say she is small again store business is good, the husband has steady income, be still necessary so go all out?
She says, attend adult the university entrance exam now, the age is a bit big. Actually she wants to enter oneself for an examination two years ago, at that time because scruple the age, hesitated come down. Flash went two years, think now, if resolved at that time, be to shift to an earlier date two years to achieve a goal?
So, she decides to begin from now. After she does not want to wait two years, go again afterthought.
Later, she passed adult the university entrance exam. Open more more as circumjacent duplicate inn, the business in her inn gradually cold and cheerless come down, at this moment she is an idea attacks more was in on school work. With age middleaged woman is hitting mahjong to see TV ramble bazaar when, she promotes her capability in effort. Be in originally OK and easy and comfortable age, she is easy and comfortable without the choice.
Later, she closed storefront, began new life. When encountering her again, she already was the sectional head of a large company. Turn round to want now, many years old 30 attend adult the university entrance exam, 40 years old obtain letter of complete a course, actually late not at all.
I know a friend, confuse in went up to dance. She wants to sign up for dancing class, antagonistic sound is entirely all round, everybody is asking her: Learn the age with best dancing you had been missed, is your ligament still pulled so that leave? Is the movement still done well? Face doubt, she also wanted to abandon.
But once, she encounters an eldest sister of 58 years old in dancing classroom, learn dancing to had had 3 years, dancing skill masters weller than teen-age girl, move overset, each movement makes person Jing colourful. She is open-eyed magnify mouth.
That eldest sister tells her, learn orchestic time at the outset, she also sufferred family person object, even someone says she is not afraid of really lose face, old arm old leg what still learn a youth is modern. But she feels, since just want to learn now, that is best arrangement. Just want to give more time than others, shed more sweat to stop. Think the thing that do to oneself, if do not go trying, how can you be content with?
My friend decided dancing of study signing up at once that day. After a few years, the dancing performance group that she leads is in provincial carried off in the contest second-class award.
Have what evening, begin from now, it is best time.
I am in year nearly 40 when just take the first stroke of a Chinese character to begin writing, also plaint at that time start too late, not reach to wasted big in the past days afterthought.
I understand writer Jiang Shumei on the net, she begins 60 years old to learn to write, 75 years old begin to try writing, already published 4 work nowadays. She and a lot of conventional women are same, lifetime energy gave the child the family, after till the child adult, old partner dies, she just begins to do the thing that she likes. Who can think of 60 years old to just begin the old person of literacy, can you become a writer in the future?
Famous Mosaic grandma, 76 years old begin a picture, 80 years old hold individual art exhibition, created more than 1600 work in all, warm a lot of people. She tells people: Do not look for excuse to oneself, you think the thing that do, forever not late also, even if you already 80 years old.
Mosaic grandma ever had written a paragraph of such words: Someone always says, already late. Actually, now is best days. For the person that seeks somewhat truly to, every period of life is young, seasonable.
Box up our not be the age, however the state of mind that we approach the age. We always feel too late, sigh in such sigh just about however in missed the opportunity that begins from now again.
But discover later, when we feel late, actually late not at all. If thenceforth begins, present oneself are obtained somewhat already, then, again sigh sighs regret.
A word says well: The age is not bounds, unless yourself is taken,will embarrass oneself.
To already the days of waste time, regret already no point, be inferior to beginning afresh from now, 10 years, after 20 years, you can appreciate present him —— is not best at the outset fortunately still chose to begin in age, otherwise life remains a regret only really.