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人最好的状态:不念过去,不畏将来

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每次路过幼儿园,都会听到好友的抱怨:“真羡慕那些小孩子,每天无忧无虑,不像我们,满脑子都是烦恼。”

当年是谁天天盼望长大,偷妈妈的口红,蹬着高跟鞋笨拙地在镜子前翩翩起舞?而现在又是谁排斥长大,排斥成熟,眼巴巴想要回到小时候?

人真的是个矛盾的结合体,但是岁月并不会因为你的矛盾而让一切重头再来。

我看好友这么消极悲观,拍了拍她的肩膀,安慰道:“你完全可以不要自扰,试着放下烦恼。”

你一直念念不忘的,是过往生活中的所有小美好。你会一直惦记,不过是因为害怕面对未来。

20岁的时候,你会怀念童年的自己,和知了作伴,与蝴蝶共舞,天真无邪;

30岁的时候,你会怀念20岁的自己,血气方刚,精力旺盛,把生活折腾个底朝天;

40岁的时候,你会怀念30岁的自己,三十而立,肩膀上是甜蜜的负担……

过去的总是让人心生牵挂,未知的总是让人局促不安。于是,你让回忆支配生活,回不到过去,也踏不进未来,一直在原地兜圈,浑浑噩噩错过了不少绝妙风景。

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上周末,我参加了一个创业成功人士的分享会。很难想象,台上那个眉飞色舞神采奕奕跟我们讲述创业成功经验的他,四年前是个跌入谷底的穷光蛋。

四年前,他第一次创业失败,欠下700多万外债。他把房子卖了,车抵押了,银行贷款还没还清,供应商更是天天追着他的屁股讨债。他一度陷入焦虑和恐慌中,东借西凑、砸锅卖铁,还是债台高筑。

那时候,他为了借钱,天天卖惨,一边吹嘘自己创业有多厉害,一边抱怨自己运气不佳,人生的谷底说跌就跌。

一开始,亲戚朋友们都能帮则帮,但卖惨次数多了,关系再好的亲戚朋友也有点烦他了。

他靠着亲戚们的救济天天混吃等死,总是懊悔创业期间的一步错,步步错。“如果能重来,那该有多好!”这是他连做梦都想说的话。

有一天,读小学的女儿指着一行字,让爸爸解释给她听。只见女儿小手指的真是这一句:“不念过往,不畏将来。”

“不念过往,就是说不要对过去太过执念;不畏将来,就是说不管将来怎样,都不要有所惧怕。”他絮絮叨叨着,与其说是解释给女儿听,倒不如说是用来开导自己的。

那一刻,他觉得自己真是个懦夫,即使第一次创业因为资金断裂而破产失败,但也不是说没有翻身的机会啊!于是,他重整旗鼓,利用前期积累的资源,抓住时机,来了个漂亮的咸鱼翻身。

生活从来都不会亏待努力的人,而你要做的,就是用最少的悔恨面对过去,用最少的浪费面对现在,用最多的梦想面对未来。

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我曾经看过一个虚构的视频,女主角韦莎眼睛里看不到现在。她的左眼用来看过去,右眼用来看未来,独独缺了现在,这种情况让她一生痛苦不已。

上天给了她一副好看的皮囊,但她却一点也不快乐。

她的身边,不乏有追求者,但是她看不到他们此刻的好,看到的要么是男孩们穿开裆裤的童年,要么是他们垂垂老矣的画面。

她看到的自己,也只是属于过去和未来的,这让她经常从噩梦中醒来。

她屡次三番地考虑要挖掉自己的一边眼睛,但不管挖掉哪边,她都看不到当下,从而也无法好好享受当下,更别谈热爱生活了。

虽然有点离奇,但视频的创作者正是看到了日常生活中人们经常纠结于过去和未来,才引申为创作灵感,旨在告诉人们要不念过去,不畏将来,否则你会一直处于痛苦之中,忘记了应该一如既往地热爱生活。

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万事由心,相由心生,倘若能做到不念过去,不畏将来,日子就会逐渐变得单纯而美好起来。

想想年幼时你为什么盼望着长大,不过是想能够自立自强,人生多一点选择权,而不再是零钱总要向爸妈伸手要,不能自己决定去哪,不能做自己喜欢的事情……

即使你要跟我辩解:我的童年真的无忧无虑!那么,你有没有想过,那种快乐也是建立在别人的辛苦照顾之下。请想一想,从小到大,父母为你操碎了多少心?

所以,该轮到你承担责任的时候,不要怂。无论生活多么艰难,请相信没有迈不过去的坎。与其停留过去、惧怕未来,不如放手一搏,图个不留遗憾。

“不悲过去,非贪未来,心系当下,由此安详!” 这便是一个人最好的状态。

来源:恋小暖(ID:doubibi2525)| 作者:恋小暖,多平台签约作者

英文版:

The person"s best condition: Do not read aloud the past, not Wei will come

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Every time transient nursery school, meet those who hear a good friend to complain: “ envies those dot really, everyday carefree, unlike we, have one"s mind stuffed with is vexed. ”

It is who looks forward to to be brought up every day in those days, steal mom"s lipstick, toing step on high-heeled shoes has dance lightly before the mirror lubberly? And now is whose repulsion is brought up, repulsion is mature, does anxiously want to return in one"s childhood?

The person is a contradictory combinative put oneself in another"s position really, but years can not contradict because of yours and let all heavy heads come again.

I value friendly so inactive pessimism, pat her shoulder, comfort: You need not want “ completely from faze, try to put down trouble. ”

You all the time of bear in mind constantly, it is all small happiness in associate with life. You can remember with concern all the time, because fear to face future,be nevertheless.

20 years old when, you can yearn for childhood oneself, join with cicada, with butterfly in all dance, fancy-free;

30 years old when, you can yearn for 20 years old oneself, full of sap, driving, life do sth over and over again De Chaotian;

40 years old when, you can yearn for 30 years old oneself, 30 and stand, sweet burden …… is on shoulder

In the past always is to make popular feeling unripe care, sealed always is to make a person insecure. Then, you let memory dominate the life, do not answer the past, also step not to enter tomorrow, wrap up a circle in place all the time, ignorant missed many excellent sceneries.

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Last weekend, I played public figure of a poineering success share meeting. Imagine very hard, that enraptured on the stage is alight he what tell about poineering success experience with us, a pauper that drops into cereal bottom is 4 years ago.

4 years ago, poineering failure of his first time, owe 700 much external debt. He sold the house, the car mortgaged, bank loan is paid off, the supplier is to chasing after his buttock to demand repayment every day more. He is immersed in angst and panic for a time in, borrow east on the west collect, be bungled sell iron, still be be heavily in debt.

Await in those days, he to lend money, sell every day miserable, boast oneself do poineering work at the same time have many fierce, blame him lot at the same time not beautiful, the cereal bottom of life says to drop.

At the beginning, kin friends can help a side, but sell miserable time much, the kin friend with again good relationship is a bit irritated also he.

He is recumbent kin people relieve mix every day eat wait dead, always repent the one situation during doing poineering work is bad, step by step wrong. If “ can come again, it is good that that should have many! ” this is he daydreams repeatedly if wanting to say.

One day, the daughter that reads elementary school is pointing to a word, let father explanation listen to her. What see daughter pinkie only is this one really: “ does not read aloud associate with, not Wei will come. ”

“ does not read aloud associate with, that is to say does not go to passing too over- hold read aloud; Not Wei will come, no matter that is to say will come how, do not want to be fear of somewhat. Be favored with of long-winded of ” his garrulous is worn, saying with its is to explain a daughter to listen, be inferior to saying use him channel.

That momently, he feels he is a craven really, although do poineering work to rupture and go bankrupt because of capital for the first time,fail, but also not be the opportunity that says to did not turn over! Then, his rally, use the resource that early days accumulates, seize an opportunity, came a beautiful salty fish turn over.

The life all along won"t the person that treat unfairly tries hard, and you want to do, face the past with least compunction namely, face with least waste now, face future with most dream.

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I once had watched a dummy video, cannot see in eye of heroine Wei Sha now. Her different key point is used view the past, right eye is used see future, was short of alone alone now, this kind of circumstance makes her lifetime painful unceasingly.

God gave her a pair of good-looking skin bursa, but she is happy not at all however.

Beside her, there is no lack of have hunter, but she cannot see them at the moment good, the or that see is the childhood that boys wear open-seat pants, or is they hang down aging picture.

She sees oneself, just also belong to the past and future, this lets her often awake from inside nightmare.

Ground of her again and again considers to want to dig up his at the same time eye, but no matter dig up which edge, she cannot see instantly, also cannot enjoy instantly well thereby, more do not talk have deep love for the life.

Although have a place bizarre, but the in achieving an author to see daily life just about people of video often kink did not come at was being mixed in the past, ability extend the meaning is creation inspiration, aim to tell people otherwise reads aloud the past, not Wei will come, otherwise you can be in anguish all the time in, forgot to should have deep love for the life as always.

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Heart of ten thousand main content, be born by the heart, if can be accomplished do not read aloud the past, not Wei will come, the day can become pure gradually and happiness rises.

Want year young when why are you looking forward to to be brought up, it is to want nevertheless can free-standing self-improvement, option of life much feature, is pocket money always wants to stretch his hand to pa Mom no longer should, cannot oneself decide to go, cannot do the its …… that oneself like

Although you want to explain with me: My childhood is carefree really! So, you had thought, the sort of joy also is to build the hardship in others to take care of under. Think please, arrive as a child big, is parents held for you broke how many heart?

So, when should be turn for you to assume responsibility, do not want Song. No matter how the life is hard, believe to did not stride the bank that goes nevertheless please. Keep the past with its, fear future, be inferior to letting go one wrestle, graph do not take a pity.

“ not Bei goes, be not corrupt future, the heart fastens instantly, from this unruffled! ”This is a person"s best condition.

Origin: Love small warm (ID: Doubibi2525) | Author: Love small warm, much platform autograph makes an appointment with an author

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