Truly outstanding person, do not be afraid that the success is late
Stand fast a persistent heart, can realize the dream in the heart eventually.
The university entrance exam ends, receive the telephone call of a student: Mr. “ , I feel I am taken an examination of well still, tsinghua Beijing University may have bit of little problem on, but university of Hong Kong Chinese, short for Zhejiang Province should be no problem greatly ……”
I am very gratified, also feel happy for him. This my student, the university entrance exam exceeded a line 90 minutes last year, because fill in a form and submit it to the leadership is volunteer,gave an issue however, the university that was not admired in the heart is admitted.
He is determined again answer read a year, a lot of people persuade him: Calculated! Answer read a year a bit late. That university that besides admits you is good also, waste a year of time for nothing why.
But the idea that he holds to himself, because he believes: Again answer read a year, although can attend a college one year behindhand, but he can be taken an examination of weller. Can attend the college that admire in the heart, this ability is the life that he wants.
You look, those outstanding people, accept or reject in gain and loss before, always staring at the mainest goal, even if the defer on time a bit, also will not grudge.
They are not indulged, not perfunctory, according to oneself rhythm, keep out the temptation before, the target that Chao Meng misses strides step by step. They change a space with time, changed wider development perspective.
I have a fellow worker, ability exceeds strong, age gets promoting gently.
But one day, the colleague because economic problem by depose, make a person sob for a short while unceasingly.
However, he of depose hind did not abandon accordingly. After a few years, through indefatigable effort, get promoting put sb in a very important position again.
Original, these a few years, the colleague works hard at the same time; Sum up a lesson at the same time, undergo self-imposed hardships so as to strengthen one"s resolve to do sth, give oneself redress an injustice.
He by person bring a false charge against sb, others uses false data, becloud at that time handle a case personnel, the result causes beyond recall effect to him, wasted a few years of auspicious time.
When everybody condemns a false accuser, the colleague is light said sentence: The road to happiness full of hardships is not afraid of late.
Those outstanding people, not be plain sailing, before difficult setback, they can be heavy next hearts, bear all grievance, abandon the temptation before, rein in footstep, go before encourage. When others hurries on with his journey hurriedly, they are not afraid of late, do not look for excuse behindhand for his, the ideal that is oneself only goes struggling.
In the life, the starting point of everybody is different, some people innumerable trials and hardships, just come to Beijing, some people are in Beijing natively; A lot of moment, your end lifetime, also reach the starting point of others merely, return the start of short of others even.
What we can do is: Not too haggle over every ounce start discretion, leave in the past oneself, let present him excel past oneself, let oneself become more powerful in awaiting restrainedly.
Actually, every outstanding person, they are not afraid of late, because they have a kind of outstanding character: ? Mirror ining order to scrupulously and respectfully?
Alleged defer is contented, be willing namely for more valuable, more long-term result, abandon the choice orientaton that satisfies immediately, and the ego that reveals in await controls capacity.
In the process of pursuit, they are laying in individual professional ability, finish all sorts of jobs, coordinate human relation, made all sorts of preparation to get used to a society.
20 centuries 60 time, stanford university Professor Michelle did “ defer to satisfy ” test.
Old later, did probe again, those can the child that “ defer satisfies ” , can adjust better oneself behavior, control impulse, boycott is alluring, unremitting ground assures the implementation of dreamy objective.
So, destiny contrail of the person is tall it is low, when facing temptation with you greatly, whether make defer concern.
Actually, “ defer satisfies ” not only applicable child grows, world of applicable also adult.
Defer is contented, let you apparently than others more grievance, because you want to dominate the desire of seasonable enjoyment, abandon the temptation before, need spends more time, pay than others more sweat and toil, …… suffers in awaiting slowly
Do not divide successfully early or late, need not envy others to be enjoyed in comfortable area, want you to be in hard only, each days of metropolis leaves a success further. Successful, do not be afraid of forever late.
Stand fast a persistent heart, not urgent not impetuous, according to his rhythm the life works, although a bit later, you also can realize the dream in the heart eventually.
Origin: Savour ID of abide by justice: Pwzytime6