Want and be together than the person that you try hard
Say to want to want to progress, must step oneself comfortable group.
Comfortable circle comfortable, because everybody is same,be, hello I am good everybody is good, the level of everybody is about the same, natural meeting has a lot of common languages, if you a little somewhat alert, want to step one pace, affirmative companions can see you is additional kind, sometimes more meeting ground of unable to hold oneself back pulls you again.
May you still think the move is original or the friend is best, little imagine, we had left our progress further and further.
1, Want to step comfortable group
The colleague previously beautiful understand a telephone call with me recently, she says to did not want to be waited for in native place, the likelihood crosses paragraph of time to be able to come to Shanghai continue to apply for a job, let me help she is advertent need enrol the person"s unit.
Beautiful smaller than me a few years old, be graduated from school of a of Beijing one this academy, a company that is in Beijing at that time worked 9 years to be called by parents, she learns originally assiduous, can bear hardships again, hands or feet is deft also, if continue to work, still perhaps have prospect very much.
But clever in those days she obedient does not think parents is sad, complied with parental arrangement.
But after going back, though smooth and steady, also be beside parents, always can feel everyday time is wasteful and too much.
Her work small spare time, although pay is stable, but if want to gain much point impossible also, class of each day the world makes an appointment with the friends all round she shops dozen of mahjong, if she went feeling so much time was wasted too regrettablly, do not go, friends say she is additional again kind.
Recently, see unit of city of a lot of a gleam of is in invite applications for a job, her requirement very accord with a condition, came with respect to the decision then.
She says: She would rather become “ phoenix end, also do not want to become gallinaceous head ” .
What actually this word says is to want to go in phoenix, even when not phoenix head is irrespective also, piling up an environment to progress to oneself is very advantageous, in chicken group in even if become,went up hard again namely the head also cannot become phoenix.
2, Go in outstanding crowd
In " I am fear of become such strong girls " in this book, liu Yuanyuan says:
I like “ to go to the place with intense competition, like to follow than me more the person of effort is together and enjoy the sort of oppressive feeling, bigger limit ground arouses such ability potential, if discover oneself always follow a flock of friends that make me feel comfortable to be together, vigilance wants instead in the heart, don"t oneself have any a bit progress recently? ”
This also let me think of this personal experience.
The person that I and very much book review are composed previously is together to be able to feel poor they are too much, same a book review, others is written so well, what how oneself write is so poor, through learning be used to, follow-up ceaselessly, progressed a bit a little, become rich Lan Kelin to read later the autograph of the club makes an appointment with an author, it is to let me dare be not loosened more, ceaseless essence is entered.
Join an autograph to make an appointment with an author for the first time group when, was frightened jump, there is the young writer that has given a lot of books inside, have write casually can go up the Neozoic author of the People"s Daily, of the king that also a month still can take contribution fee besides the job, lecture desperately 3 man, I am a Xiaobai simply before these big Ga.
Oneself are forced to try hard silently everyday, say less to be done more write seriously, learn more to them.
3, Learn silently hard
Write before me it is book review mostly, the style that asks with platform returns some difference, then I think method is read more, search more material, much to those effort aspirant outstanding author learns.
When remembering making draft for the first time, content chief inspector says to be no good, want to revise.
Had revised give in, she says to still be no good again;
The 3rd draft, the 4th draft, until revised 5, 6 draft, even 7, 8 draft just are passed.
Be gotten by cruel in those days very miserable, but look round oneself article level still progresses somewhat.
If be on bad terms at that time,the person of these outstanding effort is together, the style of writing that does not know oneself has many to rot.
The person grows in the little in such environment namely those who rise.
The knowledge that acquires together with them will be the brushstroke in my life enormous wealth.
When a few manuscripts that write recently give an editor examine and verify, they say to there is progress before my comparing, having a few times even is how need not revise, one stalk of grain too.
If there is not the person travel together of these efforts at that time, how can have my present a bit progress again.
4, With the travel before the person that try hard
Our real enemy, it is the test of the life, be oneself is slack, not be to say to want to compare all round everybody is strong marvellous, ability becomes those who be life to win the home, should compare your good person study more by force than you to those however, find the groove that copes with people on one"s own side to be born.
A word says well:
The circle of Everyman, those who talk about is other people"s business, those who earn is salary, those who want will be tomorrow;
The circle that produces in, those who talk about is a project, those who earn is profit, those who want is below one year;
The circle of plute, those who talk about is an opportunity, those who earn is fortune, those who think of is future and safeguard.
We should be mixed more than oneself the person with outstanding effort is together, such ability blossom step by step the look that oneself like.
Author: Liu Yuanyuan, master of Beijing University law, " super oratorical " countrywide total champion, currently hold the post ofYuan to achieve CEO of culture medium limited company, her speech has on behalf of work " cold Men Guizi " , " the youth changes the world " etc.